To obtain the execution plan for an explainable statement executing in a named connection, use this statement:
EXPLAIN [options] FOR CONNECTION connection_id;
        EXPLAIN FOR CONNECTION returns
        the EXPLAIN information that is
        currently being used to execute a query in a given connection.
        Because of changes to data (and supporting statistics) it may
        produce a different result from running
        EXPLAIN on the equivalent query
        text. This difference in behavior can be useful in diagnosing
        more transient performance problems. For example, if you are
        running a statement in one session that is taking a long time to
        complete, using EXPLAIN FOR
        CONNECTION in another session may yield useful
        information about the cause of the delay.
      
        connection_id is the connection
        identifier, as obtained from the
        INFORMATION_SCHEMA
        PROCESSLIST table or the
        SHOW PROCESSLIST statement. If
        you have the PROCESS privilege,
        you can specify the identifier for any connection. Otherwise,
        you can specify the identifier only for your own connections.
      
        If the named connection is not executing a statement, the result
        is empty. Otherwise, EXPLAIN FOR CONNECTION
        applies only if the statement being executed in the named
        connection is explainable. This includes
        SELECT,
        DELETE,
        INSERT,
        REPLACE, and
        UPDATE. (However,
        EXPLAIN FOR CONNECTION does not work for
        prepared statements, even prepared statements of those types.)
      
        If the named connection is executing an explainable statement,
        the output is what you would obtain by using
        EXPLAIN on the statement itself.
      
        If the named connection is executing a statement that is not
        explainable, an error occurs. For example, you cannot name the
        connection identifier for your current session because
        EXPLAIN is not explainable:
      
mysql> SELECT CONNECTION_ID();
+-----------------+
| CONNECTION_ID() |
+-----------------+
|             373 |
+-----------------+
1 row in set (0.00 sec)
mysql> EXPLAIN FOR CONNECTION 373;
ERROR 1889 (HY000): EXPLAIN FOR CONNECTION command is supported
only for SELECT/UPDATE/INSERT/DELETE/REPLACE
        The Com_explain_other status variable
        indicates the number of
        EXPLAIN FOR
        CONNECTION statements executed.