WL#9722: Deprecate libmysqld embedded server in 5.7

This WL covers deprecation of libmysqld from MySQL 5.7.

User Documentation
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* https://dev.mysql.com/doc/relnotes/mysql/5.7/en/news-5-7-19.html
* https://dev.mysql.com/doc/refman/5.7/en/libmysqld.html
* https://dev.mysql.com/doc/refman/5.7/en/mysql-config.html
* https://dev.mysql.com/doc/refman/5.7/en/mysql-nutshell.html#mysql-nutshell-deprecations
  (includes migration instructions)

No code change, this task is to update the documentation only.

The embedded server is deprecated in 5.7, and removed in 8.0