WL#423: Binlog direct connect to server to reply log

This task was initially specified a bit vague.

The task is to add an option to mysqlbinlog to be able to connect to the server
to reply log file (it already can read log file from server) - this would allow
to remove need of piping it output to "mysql". 

This is important to

  - solve problems with pipe in Windows which can't pass some characters
  - solve problems with LOAD DATA INFILE - currently mysqlbinlog leaks temporary
files for replicating these as it is unable to decide when file shall be deleted
  - have more potentially more efficient execution of some commands.